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ask: please can you tell me how a virgin vagina looks like..?

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hii..i am 18 years old..i had sex for many times but he didn't put his pennis inside ..and i can put my finger easyl insidesoo can you give me more info about ..i wonna know about virgin vagina size and how can you know that you are a virgin??thank you appreciated.

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Hi. I am 25 and i never have had sex... when i want to touch it with my finger i feel lots of pain... i feel a big bon of my body there that so there isnt any place to go !!! Is it ppssible? Plzzz answer me. And my v***** shape is diffrent to what is see in pics... when i open it there are 2 pink things like 2 little tongues there instead of a hole ! Is it a problem?

September 15, 2014 - 2:27am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon!

A vagina comes in different shapes and sizes. I'm sure you are normal. For further help, it's a good idea to see your doctor, especially if you are having pain.  Nobody can tell you what may be happening over the Internet- you should get an evaluation. 



September 15, 2014 - 4:21am
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Hi Susan,

Perfect answer with details.

September 10, 2014 - 2:34am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Thanks Anon, I appreciate that! 


September 12, 2014 - 6:06am
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I am 26 yesrs old girl I had sex with my boy friend many times now I am getting married I want to bleed during sex what should I do for that plz answer me doc

August 19, 2014 - 12:06pm
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon

You can't force yourself to bleed during sex. Are you marrying your boyfriend? He knows you are not a virgin (neither is he) so this should not be an issue.

Bleeding during sex for the first time does not indicate you are a virgin. Some women never bleed. 



August 20, 2014 - 5:06am
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Anonymous (reply to Susan Cody)

You are getting me wrong I am not getting marry with my boy friend I am getting marry with someone else plz tel me what to do I am very tens

August 20, 2014 - 5:42am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Is your marriage an arranged one? Can you stop the marriage?

Stop having sex for now with your boyfriend, you will be very emotionally distraught. 

I can only repeat - not all women bleed when they lose their virginity. If your soon-to-be husband doesn't understand this, then educate him. If you are from a culture where these notions are believed, then it's difficult to tell you what to do. 


August 20, 2014 - 6:12am
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Anonymous (reply to Susan Cody)

What to do I am getting marry in next month now only 26 days left what to do

August 20, 2014 - 6:22am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

hope you will invite us in your marriage......

September 12, 2014 - 8:18pm
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