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I can't believe I'm asking this but I'm starting to freak out a little bit.
A few days after my period ended, my boyfriend and I were "messing around." He put his bare penis up to my bare vagina and started rubbing before I told him to stop and put on a condom. (I'm not on any other form of birth control right now.) No ejaculation and no penetration, just possible precm on my vagina.
I didn't think anything of it at the time, but now my period is a few days late - I've had some weird light brown spotting with period-esque cramps, but no period. My breasts are tender and look a little bigger to me, and my skin has absolutely exploded with acne (although that is not unusual for me). I'm kind of freaking out.
I took a sensitive early test the day my period should have come, and it was negative, but still no period. A pregnancy would be absolutely devastating, especially without intercourse - I'm not even sure my boyfriend would believe me. :(
I should mention that I recently stopped taking the Pill because it was making me super depressed and physically ill. I was told to expect some cycle weirdness after stopping, but I'd gone through two full cycles and my period seemed perfectly normal.
Am I making myself nuts or is there a real risk here?
Thanks very much for your help.
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Hi,
July 4, 2018 - 8:46ammy bf and i were messing on march 21 or 22. his penis and my vagina had contact but no penetration and he suddenly pulled away and came on my lower thigh which i wiped away. i later got my period n April 1and it was heavy. I started feeling different during the middle of may and had irregular period which was late and not like my regular period. after i had finished my period i took 4 at home pregnancy tests within a span of 25 days and they were all negative. I have also taken 2 urine tests at the doctors office and both were negative. i got a blood test and everything was fine. and i got a regular period in june. i have taken all the possible measures but an ultrasound. am i freaking out for nothing ?
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Hello Anon
There is no need to assume you are pregnant - all your tests are negative and you're getting your period. There is no need for concern.
July 4, 2018 - 2:29pmSusan
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I was having a very light light period and my boyfriend and I were grinding with underwear on but there was Precum in his underwear. Soon I took my underwear off and was grinding on him naked execpt he had underwear but there was precum on his underwear, ever since it's been a month and I still haven't gotten my period. Cramps here and there and white stuff on my underwear but still no period. My boyfriend told me he peed before we did all that. Am I pregnant?
June 12, 2018 - 3:03pmThis Comment
So on a few weeks ago me and my boyfriend were messing around and he rubbed his bare penis directly on my bare vagina and fingered me. He only inserted a little of his tip inside of me because as soon as i felt my hole being penetrated i told him to stop. Is it possible for the sperm to go inside? I was still a virgin at that moment. I asked him if there was precum he said no because he didnt feel any liquid coming out. But i'm not sure since men cannot know when precum is released. The next day i experienced abdominal pain and cramps and ive been worrying about it till today. Also the next 2 days i saw a little spot of blood on my underwear. But i didnt experience the abdominal pain everyday, only a for 2-3 days then i feel fine, then i feel it again until today. A few days after that we had sex but with a condon on and i'm 100% the condom didnt break because i tested it to see if there was a hole after our intercourse. My last period was at 2nd of May and it's already 30th May, no signs of period but the cramps has gotten worse. Is there a possibility that i am pregnant? Is a pregnancy test necessary? Please gelp i've been stressing about this a lot latrly and been surfing through the internet for answers, please give me a definite answer to end my stress. Thank you very much.
May 30, 2018 - 9:21amThis Comment
i also have the same problem. im 3 days late on my period. I knew i was ovulating on may 2 and then my bf and i messed aroud. he tried to insert his penis on my anus but it wont get in so we just moved without penetration and the tip of his penis was on my back. then he went inside the bathroom to ejaculate. im worried now. please help me. am i pregnant?
May 18, 2018 - 4:00pmThis Comment
Hello.
You can't get pregnant from anal sex, and you say he went to the bathroom to ejaculate. If this is so, you wouldn't be pregnant. Your period is late for other reasons. For future, have your boyfriend wear a condom as what you are doing is not safe. Accidents can easily happen.
Helena
May 18, 2018 - 5:42pmThis Comment
thank you for responding but i still dont have my period. im having mild cramps.
May 19, 2018 - 4:30pmThis Comment
Hello.
It sounds like your period is on its way. Try to relax. Stress is likely why your period is late. Educating yourself about sex will relieve a lot of fear and stress in the future. You can always take a pregnancy test. I say this not because I think you are pregnant, but because a test will give you the proof you need.
Helena
May 19, 2018 - 5:04pmThis Comment
i hope so. thank you for responding. I hope my period will come. im desperate
May 19, 2018 - 5:06pmThis Comment
is it possible that while he's trying to insert his thing on my anus some pre cum get in my vagina? im desperate for answers
May 19, 2018 - 5:54pmThis Comment