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Pregnant through fingering or mutual masturbation??? Help!!

By Anonymous April 2, 2012 - 7:04pm
 
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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(

-worried

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Anonymous

Hello, I am really panicking at the moment. On March 11th, me and my boyfriend fooled around and I gave him a blowjob. He did not come, and he is pretty sure that he didn't touch his penis and his hands were dry before he fingered me about 10 minutes later. But I am late 7 days and I'm worried if it's possible that he had a little amount of semen that he didn't notice. Is there a possibility of me being pregnant?

March 27, 2017 - 5:48am
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anon

There does not seem to be any risk - but take a pregnancy test to confirm.
Best,
Susan

March 27, 2017 - 1:22pm
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Anonymous

Urgent!!
Hello so weeks ago I went to my bf's apartment and we fooled around. He came and he wiped it off with his fingers and told me to clean it off with my mouth. He then proceeded to finger me. Is there a chance for me to get pregnant?? My menstration is due in a few days and I get cramps is this normal?? Pls Answer ASAP!!

March 20, 2017 - 5:02am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

There should have been no risk of all the semen was removed from his fingers. Getting your period will be proof that you did not become pregnant.

Regards,
Maryann

March 21, 2017 - 9:21am

Hi just 2 days ago I met with my gf.since I'm a virgin and wen I touch or hug my gf my lower part goes up and it will be wet with semen but I try to avoid to get it near her lower part. Me and my girlfriend we just lost control we started kissing and feeling each other and she masterbated me and I lightly touch my lower part but not to a point to get fully wet. When I touched my lower part I rubbed the semen off and I put my finger in her lower part(Vagina) the one tht I rubbed off after two or three minutes then I went to wash my hands four or five times and fingered my gf again I'm just worried so much if she could get pregnant from tht by the way I did not but my fingers fully in just half way and she is virgin as well. So Wats the chance of pregnancy?

March 19, 2017 - 4:27am
Guide (reply to Unknown 123321)

Hello Unknown123321,

There would have been a chance if there was semen on your finger when you put it into her vagina. There would have been a chance if this happened close to when she was due to ovulate.

Regards,
Maryann

March 21, 2017 - 9:24am
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Anonymous

Hello, I'm going to call myself A and my girlfriend B.
Anyways today we both were fooling around, and she gave me a hand job and I came on my tummy, afterwards I touched the semen which was left on my tummy by accident and put the fingers in her mouth. I fingered her with the same finger after putting it in her mouth. I know that 20 minutes has not passed, and I read that it takes at least 20 minutes for sperms to die after being out in the open. Will she get pregnant? She complained of headaches and a stomach pain after a few hours, could it be pregnancy? Because we did almost the same thing the previous day, and I was not very careful, but we are still both virgins.

March 17, 2017 - 10:09am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

I do not see a risk for her becoming pregnant if the semen was removed from your fingers when you put them in her mouth. Did she lick your fingers?

You are engaging in risky behavior. She should start using some type of birth control, either oral contraceptives, have an IUD inserted or get the Depo-Provera injections.

If you continue to engage in the above type of activity, please wash off any semen with soap and water before going further.

Regards,
Maryann

March 17, 2017 - 1:07pm
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Anonymous

I'm a virgin. My boyfriend came in my mouth and I swallowed it. Then a few seconds later, we made out. Then he went down on me. However, he didn't finger me. He just focused on the clitoris. My question is Could I become pregnant if there's semen in his mouth from making out and he performs oral sex on me?

March 16, 2017 - 9:43pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

No, there was no risk.

Maryann

March 17, 2017 - 8:57am
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