Hi im 22 and my boyfriend 30 of just over 8 months are having some problems in our sexual life. Everything else in our relationship is really good :) ...... his sex drive has been really low of late. The begining of our relationship the sex was amazing and frequent! Now its averaging 3 times a month ? We have had a good talk together about it and both let each other know what we like in the bedroom as i came to think he was not attracted to me. It was lowering my self esteem. He has said that is not the case. He is under alot of stress. His sex drive went after coming off his anxiety meds. So like ive said we have talked about it but its still not quite impoving the sexual life. We have done it a bit more but not much. Ive tried seduction, sexy outfits ect my main question is because im a very sexual girl i am willing to try anything and he knows it. Could that be a reason why he dont want it much as im always available ? Like the saying you want what you cant have ? Should i maybe stop being so willing to do anything ? Or even start saying no to sex like he does ? Like reverse the situation. Would that make him want it more as its more of a challenge? I am an attractive woman and he always tells me im beautiful and he loves me we still cuddle and do alot of other stuff together.
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