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By Anonymous April 17, 2009 - 2:46pm
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1 or 2 weeks ago, my boyfriend and i were in my bed fooling around. he got on top of me and took his penis out, my underwear was halfway off. he put the tip of his penis right outside of my vaginal hole (he was not inside, but if i wanted to, he could just push and he;d be right in) i;ve noticed that he does pre-ejactulate when he is aroused, so WHAT IF he did pre-ejactulate and it traveled up my vagina. is that possible? what are the chances of me being pregnant? should i be concerned?

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I'm so sorry you are scared! I just wanted to check to see how you are doing, as Tina and Michelle gave you good information and advice.

Do you know if your period is late?

To answer your question, it is possible that you can become pregnant from pre-ejaculate, but not likely from your description if there was no penetration (he had his penis on the outside of your vagina, not inside). Getting pregnant depends on what part of your cycle you had unprotected genital-to-genital contact, so knowing when your period starts is good to start putting on a calendar.

oh--and most of the time, there is pre-ejaculate fluid on the tip of the penis when it is erect, whether or not you can see it.

Please let us know if you need any more information. We can also talk with you about birth control options (since you are sexually active, you should look into using condoms), and possibly hormonal-contraception like the pill.

April 19, 2009 - 8:09am
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Dear Anonymous,

Thank you so much for visiting the website and for feeling comfortable and safe enough here to post your question. We get this question all of the time from teenage girls just like you.

Tina did a great job with her reply and sent you all sorts of links filled with information that I hope will really help you.

Because we get questions about sex from teenagers so often, I was hoping I could ask you a question. If it's okay with you, would you mind telling me why you wrote your question here? Is it because you don't have anyone you can talk with about sex? We are so happy that you came here and you are welcome anytime to ask whatever question that you like. But when I've asked other teens this same question many of them reply that they just don't have anyone to talk to about stuff like this. So I'm always curious what each poster's situation is.

My only other question for you is where you were in your menstrual cycle when you were fooling around with your boyfriend. Did you just have your period or were you farther into the month? Are your periods pretty regular?

Please post again and let us know how you are doing. And again, thank you so much for your question. Big hugs to you, Michelle

April 18, 2009 - 10:48pm

Hey there anon,

Thanks for writing and we understand your concern ... This is certainly a situation we hear a lot about. We have deep and broad answers to your questions at the following links:

Could i be pregnant?

My bf and I dry humped this past month and i was wondering if i could be pregnant?

Can you get pregnant with clothes on?

You may also want to read this article about the lifespan of sperm when exposed to air from the University of California, Santa Barbara.

And if you are thinking about being sexually active, you may find this information from the National Women’s Health Resource Center about birth control very helpful. Please let us know if you have further questions.

April 17, 2009 - 4:26pm
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