My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years. We have lived together for 2 years and both pay our bills fairly equally. As of the last 6 months our sex life has been almost non existant. We had sex once a month for a little while, and then no sex for 3-4 months. I don't think he is cheating on me, we spend a lot of time together, and I think I would notice if he was acting guilty. For a little while I was unemployed and I think alot of stress was put on his shoulders because he had to make ends meet on his own and things were very tight. I tried helping any way I could, I did and still do , all the household work(cooking, cleaning, laundry etc). Whenever we do have sex, it seems as though I am the one making the first move and it is the same way in our relationship. He shows me affection, although I am the one to initate it. I't seems to me in some ways my boyfriend doesn't even want to be in a relationship with me. I feel as though I'm trying and he has just given up. I have a hard time communicating, and want to know if there is an easy way to find out what is going on? Can you help?
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