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By April 30, 2012 - 11:58am
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I have a very low self esteem, i am overweight but my boyfriend always shows and tells me how he feels about me and that he thinks im the most beautiful woman in the world but i still struggle to feel comfortable and its affecting our relationship and our sex life! i take everything so personal even when he is too tired to have sex i get very emotional and feel unwanted! what can i do, i love him so much and want this to work more then anything in the world but its hard for me to feel wanted and i often feel like he deserves much better...plz help

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Thank u for responding and I'm going to seek some counciling I think your right ineed to work through my past so I can then work on my self esteem

May 1, 2012 - 12:03am

Hello laina88,

You need to begin to believe in yourself, that you are beautiful and focus all the good things that make you who you are.

I realize this is not easy, especially if you have had negative experiences in your life. If others, whom you trusted and whom you loved, hurt you or betrayed you, it is very difficult to have a high level of self-esteem.

I suggest that you seek the professional help of a well-trained counselor or therapist. You can begin by asking your doctor for a referral. Or, check with your insurance provider for a list of therapists or counselors. With a few names, you can do an internet search to find if any of these referrals are right for you.

Don't try to go this alone,


April 30, 2012 - 3:54pm
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