My boyfriend and i have been dateing for over 3 years now, and i cant remember when was the last time we had sex. I have read all sorts of pages on this type of thing, but nothing seems to quite match mine. He is a wonderful person, he treats me great!, he hugs me and kisses me, tells me im pretty and everything, and were both young, but when it comes to sex it just seems he would rather me take care of him and him just forget about me. (meaning oral)
When we first started dateing he couldnt keep his hands off of me, we would fool around all the time and we would have sex at least 2 or even 3 times a week..now a days im lucky if i get it once in 3 months. I have tried telling him about the problem, asking him if he was still in love with me and thought i was pretty and everything, and bringing up the fact that we dont have sex as much anymore, and all i get is "you shouldnt base our relationship on sex," then he turns everything around makeing it seem like its all my fault.
It's not like im not willing to have sex, and he knows that, i just figure if he wanted to, wouldnt he? I just don't know what to do anymore, i have tried spicing things up and it just ends up the same way, hes happy, im not..he doesnt seem to notice and when he does, he just says "i love you" and walks away. I like to think im not ugly, but im no super model either,i take care of myself, im clean and i hate that this makes me second guess myself. Im only 20 years old and i crave that sexual intimacy that im not receiving. I dont understand why he wont have sex with me anymore and im sick of being the only one thats left unsatified and in tears. Help?
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