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By Keisha lee
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my boy friend ejaculated in my hands but i made sure to wash them and wipe my hands and i went to the bathroom after a couple minutes say about 4-5 minutes is it possible that sperm could have still been on my hands???. i'm planing on having sex as well very soon what is the best contraceptive method 4 me? ps: i don't like pills

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Rosa Cabrera RN


Thanks for your question. If you washed your hands after he ejaculated then you have nothing to be concerned about. 

As far as the best method of contraception for you, you should ask your doctor this question-- he is the best person qualified to help you choose a method of birth control. If you do not like pills condoms are always a good choice since they are the only method that protect against AIDS/STD's, there is also Depo Provera which is an intramuscular injection taken every three months, and then there are more invasive and long term birth control options such as Mirena, which is an IUD that is good for about 5 years. 

Here is some more information on these options, but please remember to consult with your doctor to determine which option is best for you:

Best wishes,


October 13, 2012 - 3:53pm
Keisha lee (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

Thank u so much i was a bit worried

October 13, 2012 - 6:08pm
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