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Should I be worried

By Anonymous May 21, 2011 - 4:38pm
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On the last day of my period my bf and I fooled around. We used a condom like we always do. We weren't having sex he just rubbed his penis on the outside of my vagina until he came. I do not recall the condom ever breaking. But about two weeks later, towards the end of the second week my breast have gotten tender and have not stopped, it been a little over a week and i am expecting my period any day now. I am just concerned on whether I should be worried about pregnancy? Usually I do get sore nipples before my period but not for this length of time. I am really paranoid because I am not ready for a child right now.

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I'm glad it was helpful. Just to clarify for other's reading this: I should have said that it takes 10-14 days after unprotected sex, assuming you are ovulating at this time for a fertilized egg to implant.

A small, but important, distinction.

Good luck, and let us know when your period begins!

May 22, 2011 - 12:22pm
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Anonymous (reply to Alison Beaver)

It actually began today and my nipples aren't sore anymore either. I was just a little freak out because my nipple were sore for almost 2 weeks and that has never happened to me before. But you helped to calm my nerves so thank you.

May 23, 2011 - 12:31pm

You would not be experiencing any pregnancy symptoms now, as it takes 10-14 days after unprotected sex for a fertilized egg to implant in a woman's uterus (pregnancy is nit instantaneous!).

Your symptoms are most likely an indicator that your period is coming.

Plus, you had protected sex! Condoms are up to 98% effective at preventing pregnancy, plus it sound like he did not ejaculate inside your vagina. There is virtually no risk of pregnancy from you description, so I am wondering why you are worried, and hope that you can think about your level of readiness to have sex at this time in your life. You used a condom and did not have penetrative sex.... these are very safe choices (great job!) with minimal to no risk of pregnancy when used as combined birth control.

May 22, 2011 - 6:06am
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Anonymous (reply to Alison Beaver)

Thanks for your advice and prompt response it was really helpful.

May 22, 2011 - 10:47am
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