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Should I leave my wife?

By July 13, 2012 - 1:17pm
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my wife told me to go jack off or find someone else to give me oral pleasure because she's not doing it anymore. I do know she likes to use a vibrator sometimes and she says that because of the vibrator that she sometimes can't feel me. Could this be really true?

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Hello ERIC41,
Is this just one issue in your relationship with your wife or are you experiencing other problems? Do you love her and does she love you?
Is your marriage worth saving?

I strongly suggest that you and your wife find a marriage counselor. Make an appointment. With commitment and honesty, the two of you can save your marriage.


July 13, 2012 - 4:14pm
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Can using a vibrator reduce the sensitivity of regular sex, and therefore take longer to orgasm or make regular sex less satisfying ?

October 9, 2013 - 5:25pm
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