there is any possibility for pregnanacy?

By Anonymous March 6, 2012 - 3:10am

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i am 23yr old lady,my marriage was before 3 yrs.but i feel pain during intercourse.but now around 6 mnths we r trying to do as much possible.lastly we did it halfway.my last period was on 4th feb..today its 6th march, feel body pain,headache,leg pain befor 1 week...so i thinks that its the symbol of preganancy.but yesterday a small drop of blood came(reddish and brownish in color)...didnt get the period completely.so is there any possibility to become pregnanat.now we need a child..my husbands parents are forcing me for it..but my husband didnt like to hurt me in anyway.so please help me.please.i approached 2 doctors..they r telling me to do..otherwise no way..

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siskiyou

You have been checked out by doctor why you are not having monthly periods? By chance are you long distance runner or extremely worried about weight? Both those and just stress can stop your periods.
I think if you can, each of you go to your own parents and ask them to stop applying pressure about having a child. It is putting too much stress on you and back firing.
As to the pain..also did you have check up? It could be your husband is very large,or you have anxiety about it now due to pressure by your family.
Try taking a nice bubble bath, either by yourself or together with candles, music anything that is relaxing to you. Than start out with just giving one another body massage. You could even take a few classes in it together. So that sex is not primary but additional pleasure that if you have bath than the right kind of massage where he can make sure you are aroused...so you might say what feels sensual, what is relaxing ...so he can work on sensual side more but keep you relaxed...also use lubricants that can be slide inside you. Let him tease you and you him...
Even have glass of wine during the bath or now...smoke some pot..both will relax you. than slowly as you are ready enjoy sex.
You have heard about people who adopt than have child...because all pressure was taken off themselves. they relaxed.
But first get medical check up...you may need to put on some weight or exercise little less. hope this helps..
also there are so many kids who need adopting...not babies but older children, 3 up...they so want loving parents. so might consider that as option now. than who knows you might have one of your own !!

March 11, 2012 - 6:28am

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Danielle Serrano

Hi Anon,

I'm sorry to hear you are consistently in pain during sex. Here is an article that can help explain some reasons behind that:

https://www.empowher.com/painful-sexual-intercourse/content/ouch-conditi...

If you and your husband had sex, even if it hurt or wasn't for a long time, there is absolutely a possibility that you are pregnant. The best way to find out is through a pregnancy test. However, since pregnancy and PMS symptoms are similar, you may just be late for your period, since your last one was almost exactly one month ago. Again, a pregnancy test will tell.

Since it sounds like you are trying to conceive, here is a link for information about pregnancy:
https://www.empowher.com/getting-pregnant

Please visit our sexual health 101 page for information on pregnancy symptoms, likelihood of getting pregnant, and other great information.
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101

Best,

Danielle.

March 6, 2012 - 7:12am