My boyfriend tells me that women aren't supposed to want sex for pleasure reasons, and that when it comes right down to it, we're not really even supposed to orgasm. He says that it's just an evolutionary fluke that we've encouraged through the years. However, I look around and there's a huge market for vibrators and tons of songs out there by women complaining about how men aren't satisfying them. He's 29, I'm 20, and I know he's kind of slowing down now, but it seems I'm always the one instigating, and when I do, most of the time he pushes me away and makes me feel like a fruit cake.
Prior to me he'd never met/been with a woman who wanted sex, and actually participated, so to speak. He figures this must be a 'new thing' with my generation. Am I really that unique or has he been living under a rock??? Can some one please clue me and make me feel not so....nuts?
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