Touching lower part of the girl

By Anonymous April 1, 2015 - 5:24am

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Man love girl's body...i am confused on a relationship and need ur advice....my bf loves me intensely he hugs me kissses me intensly n tightly...he touches my boobs squeezes them and now he even strted touching my lower part n rub it. all clothes on. he likes to do it bt i fewl uncmfrtable coz i want a lil protection to go on as we r unmarried. he gets angry n says u dnt trst me u dnt love me...i m cnfused plz help me. i dnt want him to get angry bt i dnt want him to use my body as a stretching thing. does this type of sex lying above n all with all clthes on is risky in any way??? hugging kissing touching intensly ur boobs and even ur lower part rubbing with clothes on? i m so careful in this regard so no touch is made without clothes bt i feeel so worried too. i hope u can help me out of this depression plz.

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Xiexie

A man who loves you won't pressure you to do something you don't want to do. He won't make you feel like you have to submit to being touched where you don't want to be touched, or in a way you don't want to be touched. He will respect your feelings and wishes.

June 4, 2015 - 9:50am

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Maryann Gromisch RN Guide

Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for coming to us for advice.

It is natural for a heterosexual man to be attracted to a woman's body, especially the woman he loves.

There is no risk for pregnancy with the activities you describe.

If you are not comfortable with it , you must share this with him. Identifying what you are uncomfortable about or scared of will help you move forward.

Cultural and religious beliefs regarding intimacy outside of marriage can play a role.

Regards,
Maryann

April 1, 2015 - 8:16am