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well this is very important for me and embarrassing...i masturbated but i did not enter anything in my virgina..i feel like my virgina has changed from the outside..as iam a muslim and its very important for me to be a virgin until my wedding night w

By August 11, 2009 - 5:45am
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i masturbated but i did not enter anything in my vagina. I feel like my vagina has changed from the outside..as i am a muslim and its very important for me to be a virgin until my wedding night

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Dear myself. I feel your worry and will pray for you. I want to share with you the fact that when I lost my virginity, there was no bleeding. That doesn't always happen. Maybe because I led an active life, my hymen had torn some, I don't know. It saddens me that this kind of stress is placed upon good women. I don't write to offer advice, but to offer you my hope for your happiness and peace of mind.

October 21, 2009 - 6:35pm
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Seriously, if you don't bleed ... tell your new hubby it's just because he's too dang small.

-You said he's going to kill you anyway. You might as well give him a complex to deal with the rest of "his" life.

August 19, 2009 - 9:18am

so u saying that the hymen can break even though i have not had any sexual intercourse..?
i have told my mum she hasnt looked at it but she says it is not broken because it is very far inside and it will not break unless u have intercousre..
yeh i will go to the docters coz its not very easy and good to go to the "hymenoplasty" in here nad also im not sure if its broen or not...

thank u all

August 14, 2009 - 12:49am
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You can ask your mother or a female friend to check if your hymen is broken or not

August 13, 2009 - 2:23pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

thank u all...

August 14, 2009 - 12:39am
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yes of course definitely..... but I dont htink it is a matter of worry so even if you are a Muslim...Can you afford and arrange for a hymenoplasty? if not then going or moving to a doctor is useless....analyse yourself and see what is the condition...very simple solution exists

August 13, 2009 - 11:38am

because im really confused and dont know what to do...im really depressed because i read these comments, some of them make me think that it is fine and im fine that it has not broken and some of them just make me think that it has broken and it really depresses me.. i think i will go to the docters..can a docter tell by just looking at it from the outside if my hymen is safe or not??

im having a really hard time..:(

August 13, 2009 - 10:11am

oh my god..im very scared :(

August 13, 2009 - 7:56am
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August 13, 2009 - 9:10am
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Reply to 1st:
Yes you can observe by using a mirror...see the picture to the link provided or search for another better original picture...
use a mirror and check out...You hymen if not broken must be visible nicely and a very small (tiny) opening to your cervix...this membrane will have rough edges but quite stretched as it is unbroken..

If it is broken then the opening must be large..depending upon how much time it was perforated during masturbation and the hymen which will still be seen be very loose and unstretched... you will see that difference easily...

Your change in morphology of labia minora may be due to enlargment of clitoris that sometimes happen when there is influx of female sex hormones(many reasons are responsible for that)...dont worry...also your statement that you gained 5 kilos indicates that there is a chenge in hormonal influx in your body...Now confirmation depends on your age.... At teenage this happens or in the years around 20-25 years...

August 13, 2009 - 7:21am
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