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i masturbated but i did not enter anything in my vagina. I feel like my vagina has changed from the outside..as i am a muslim and its very important for me to be a virgin until my wedding night
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Diane
The link that u have put has helped me alot thank u..but i have a few questions please..
1. The Labie Monira on the top where the Clitoris is, mine used to be like that but now on the top the Labia Monira is opend and its not attached to the Clitoris. why is that?
2. The hyman, mine is kind of like that but not really that open?..
3. This image is of an unbroken hymen right?
also after the changes that happend to my vigina...i put on wieght like about 5 kilos which i never put on that much wieght ever in my life...i have never been more than 51 kilos but after that i became like 57..is that got anything to do with it?
sorry im really desperate..
thanks
August 13, 2009 - 5:09amThis Comment
so u saying that it can be seen from the outside if ur hymen is broken or not...im sorry but im really confused....
August 13, 2009 - 2:40amThis Comment
i thank u all u r helping me alot..it is just that when i saw the change in my vigina whcih like i said it has gone wide which is like the picture that u have on the link..but it did not used to be like that..it was very tight..and this is why im me very scared..it used to be closed u know very small that i could not be opend wide like it is now..also what i dont get is in some places it says the hymen is inside the virgina where it might not break even if a finger is entered and in some places it says it is just outside the virgina????? i keep thinking it has broken that is why it is not tight anymore??..we have docters here who do these things..but it is too complicated and to be honest i sometimes believe that my hymen has not broken but what stops me is like i said the changes that has happend to my virgina..
August 13, 2009 - 1:02ambut thank u all for ur help..u really are helping me..
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You dont need to think if the matter is so serious for you..... use a mirror and check it out...whether its broken or existing..... How an unbroken vagina looks the image you will find in the internet..especially in forensic and anatomical websites...
August 13, 2009 - 1:13amThis Comment
You people actually not understanding her problem...she is not interested in where what lies and is found...she wants to know, what she would do if in case her hymen has broken and not going to bleed first night.? So is there any way to escape that...am i right?
Well i suggest you....hymenoplasty surgery(a minor one--contact a dermatologist or a cosmetic surgeon) remember the cost is neither too high and not even too low...but you must contact to know more about it..doctors keep privacy
If not possible then better you... act as feeling intense pain duing first intercourse and move to hide so that he doesnt gets a chance to see if bleeding or not....
And if that also not possible then follow the path of truth....tell everything...of course you can manipulate little...
August 12, 2009 - 12:26pmHope this helps you a lot
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The hymen being broken or not is not an indicator of if you are or are not a virgin. Active women or girls can break their hymen through sports and other active things as such. If you have not engaged in sexual intercourse you are a virgin. That is that. Masturbation is natural and will not make you not a virgin.
August 12, 2009 - 1:58amThis Comment
i know that iam a virgin because i have not had any sexual intercourse but i read it on the internet that it said it might break if u do masturbation..and due to the change that happend to my virgina it got me very worried because i will get killed if i dont bleed when i get married whcih is very soon. :(
August 12, 2009 - 6:50amThis Comment
Myself,
Anon is right. Women's hymens break through ways other than sex or masturbation.
But it seems to be critical to your culture that it is intact. The hymen is a thin membrane that is inside the opening to the vagina.
The "lips" that you talk about are the labia. They are actually outside of the vagina. Here is a diagram of female genitals, which shows that the hymen is just inside the vagina. The hymen doesn't cover the opening in the vagina completely; it also has a hole in it (where menstrual blood and tissue exit):
http://www.health.qld.gov.au/istaysafe/content/girlsOnly/vaginalCare.html
What you read on the internet -- about the hymen possibly breaking if you masturbate -- probably had to do with masturbation that involved the inside of the vagina, not just the outside. It might have been referring to using fingers or a vibrator to enter the vagina, which could cause damage to the hymen.
Does this help a bit?
August 12, 2009 - 9:09amThis Comment
Myself,
Welcome to Empowher, and thanks so much for your question. I'm glad you found us.
Please don't worry. Your vagina would not change from the outside from masturbation. The only thing that physically signifies whether a woman is a virgin or not is whether her hymen is intact, and that is inside.
Have you noticed anything specifically different, or are you just feeling worried in general?
August 11, 2009 - 9:59amThis Comment
yes i have noticed that it used to be very closed and tight but now it is more opend up and the sides or should i say the lips are more open...im very scared because i might get married in the year ahead and i have to bleed for the first time. i dont know if my hymen has broken or not..to be honest i dont even now if it is in the outside or inside..i used maturbate and nothing really happend except for the last time i did which agian i have not entered anything into my virgina.. it just hurt a little not much only for not even one second and no blood or anything came out but i felt that my virgina has changed like i said..im very scared this has given me dipression..:(
August 12, 2009 - 12:45amThis Comment