My husband and I have only been married a year and I'm already seeing a drastic decline in how often we make love.
We got married last year. I was 19 and he was 21. We were together more than 2 years before tying the knot but we were not intimate to avoid any possible complications due to our young ages and mainly long distance relationship (he is in the army). Our first time was a couple weeks before our wedding when I joined him at his duty station. In a few months it quickly went from making love every or every other night (besides during my menstration) to once or twice a week. And it keeps slowing. In the last month or so,we've only had sex maybe 3 times. I keep trying to start things but I keep getting shut down.
Yesterday I did something I've never done and looked at the browsing history on his phone and I found porn, and quite a bit of it. I feel like I've become not good enough and I don't know how to bring it up. Everything is fine outside of the bedroom, kissing holding hands, random gestures of affection, even showering together. But as soon as we hit the sheets, it's like we're dating all over again just cuddle and sleep.
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