I recently found something disturbing when I was looking through my boyfriend of two years emails. I was looking for an email he sent to someone and I went back too far (these emails are about a year old) and I noticed a sent email to an address cumf***mya**. I obviously clicked on it and I found out he was answering ads to various men on Craigslist with the intention of having sex with them. There were very explicit emails to about 8 different men all in one night and after that night there were no more emails. I confronted my bf and first he denied it but he called me back a half hour later and told me he never pursued anything with any of the men and that he wasn't gay and didn't know why he did that. He said that it was around the time he realized that our relationship was getting serious and that night he felt like he needed to make sure that I was what he wanted, but later realized that "he was crazy and decided not to act on it"
I don't know how to respond to this... What should I do? Does this mean that he didn't love me like he says he did? Even though he swears nothing happened and that he has never had a gay experience could he be in denial and not want to come out of the closet? I feel like he didn't do anything more than the emails, but isn't that wrong enough? How could he even think about straying from someone he "loves"?
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