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what does his drunken phone call mean?

By Anonymous August 11, 2013 - 8:48am
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Hi have known a guy for almost 2 years and , I have strong feelings for him where he only sees me someone to have sexual stuff eith, such as giving him oral sex, he knows I have feelings for him hes a really nice guy and I know he doesnt do anything with other girls. Even though we are not dating I am always jealous of him and aware of where he is. Recently this girl keeps talking to him and seeing him and hanging out with him. So I created a big drama and had argumrnt with him saying your using me and at the same time you're ignoring me and talking to this new girl. So he explained to me that this new girl is nothing to him and that he has never done anything with this new girl and that when ever they hang out they are always with friends not just together. So I was like okay then but this girl is still here and there still on his facebook talking to him trying to get all his attention on her. Anyways 3 days ago I get a call 2 in the morning from him I get missed calls and a voicemail. I listened to the voicemail and him and hes friend was like "(friend) who you calling?? (Him) im calling ..... (my name)" after leaving the voicemail i got a second phone call. (Please note that I have never ever spoken to this guy on the phone before we just never tried talking on the phone just text) I answer his phone call 2am in the morning and hes just like "where are you I dont know where I am im smashed im drunk I can only see a roof I dont know where I am" and I was like "where are you what are you doing" hes like "when your parents go sleep sneak out and come and meet me" and I was like " what do you mean what am I gonna outside 2 in the morning?" He was like " what do you wanna do?" I was like "I was like ok il come out when my parents sleep" so then he was like " okay keep your phone on you il call you in a few hours you sleep and il call you" in an hour he starting texting me saying "oi oi oiiiii come hereeee oiiiii" then he sent me a phone number saying "call this number" I called him he was like " dont worry im allgood go to sleep il speak to you tomorrow I dont know where I am im in blood my lip is smashed but dont worry im on a mattress and I can see a roof go to sleep dont worry about me" and I got angry so I was like "look you woke me up 3 in the morning you can't just tell me all this then say dont worry about me , tell me where you are and il come and get you" he was like "are you sure can you?? " and he gave the address to me. After I got the address I went and picked him up from a garage and he put hes seat down in my car and laid down with blood on his pants. At this moment I can tell he was still drunk and hes eyes were just closed and he was mumbling to me aboutt who he had an argument with and stuff. I dropped him off home and came back home . But I am left with question msrks in my head. Please keep in mind that this guy Is just someone that calls me when he wants sexual pleasure . Because he called me when he was drunk and not that new girl, this just made me think? Why did he call me and no one else? I need to know why he would call me when he is drunk?!

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Hi Anon,

Unfortunately, there is no way of knowing why would he call you and not the other girl.  Unless, you ask him.  All I can see is that the fact he likes to get drunk and in to fights is not a good person to be in a relationship with.  You should really do some thinking about this guy.  If you know he only uses and calls you for sexual pleasures, it's definitely not worth keeping him around.  Also, a man that tells you to sneak out behind your parents, is definitely proving to you he doesn't care about you nor your family.  It would be best to talk to someone close to you, perhaps older then you. Like a parent or family member, that can help you to move on out of this.  If you find yourself no being able to do on your own. 



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