I am 20 and I have been dating a 25 year old, hard working guy for 11 months now. Our sex life was good at first, but these past few months, we haven't been having sex very often. Maybe once or twice a month. I want him all the time and I tell him that. He recently told me that he just doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore. He loves me and he thinks I am beautiful, but he says he is "too comfortable with me" that he doesn't want me. He has stayed with me this long because he kept waiting for it to come back and maybe it was just a stage, but it hasn't. He watches porn and does it himself, but he tells me that he never has thought about being with anyone else. And I trust him. He is frustrated and doesn't understand why he feels this way about me because he wants us to work out, and I do too. He is talking about breaking up with me because of this problem we are having. Someone please help me figure out why this is happening. I don't know if this means we aren't suppose to be together, or if it should come back to him and we can stay together. We both thought that we would be together forever. Please help, thank you!
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