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What does it mean when a girl gets wet from sex or being turned on? What happens if she isn't wet? It hurts to have sex and not be wet, is there something wrong?

By Anonymous April 14, 2009 - 9:00am
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Everytime I am having sex I always seem to be very wet, and sometimes wet through my panties. However, I met this new guy, really great!! I like him a lot and we stepped into that next level of having sex with each other. I did get an orgasm and it was enjoyable, but I was not wet and it eventually started to hurt mainly from dry skin rubbing against dry skin. Does this mean that I am not attracted to him? Is there a problem? Is there a way to fix this?

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EmpowHER Guest

Just want to ask about the best way of turning the girls. I'm just an NGSB, so that's why i don't have yet experience.

September 28, 2014 - 12:11pm
EmpowHER Guest

My comment is can't you still be bestfriend with someone and be friend with benefits yes or no need someone to tell what to do about this

July 31, 2014 - 12:01pm
EmpowHER Guest

It doesn't have anything to do with whether you love him or not. I believe it just happens to be how your hormones are working at certain times of the month. I usually get very wet wet when my boyfriends start making love and touching me. I get wet from my juices and most of the time I will end up peeing my panties that guys that I am dating like it when I loose control.

July 31, 2014 - 11:30am
EmpowHER Guest

What's does clean means?
he wants a clean sex ?

June 25, 2014 - 9:52pm
EmpowHER Guest

I read a lot online and sometimes there like kissing parts or someone is having sex and I get a weird filling in my lower part what does that mean?

May 22, 2014 - 8:12pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

It means its time to have sex your turned on it's a okay.

July 25, 2014 - 7:34pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

It means you wnay to have sex

July 23, 2014 - 5:50pm
EmpowHER Guest

My comment is I am married to a great man but I don't get wet with him at all but I have a friend for 18 year and I get wet from him why is that can't someone tells me why is that

May 11, 2014 - 11:38am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Maybe its that you are attracted to him beyond friendship
Being that you're married he's a breath of fresh air for you
something different... you may have to disconnect the friendship
don't tempt yourself

October 6, 2014 - 11:42am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

You shall have sex with that friend then lol haha

May 18, 2014 - 3:40pm
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