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What does it mean when a girl gets wet from sex or being turned on? What happens if she isn't wet? It hurts to have sex and not be wet, is there something wrong?

By Anonymous April 14, 2009 - 9:00am
 
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Everytime I am having sex I always seem to be very wet, and sometimes wet through my panties. However, I met this new guy, really great!! I like him a lot and we stepped into that next level of having sex with each other. I did get an orgasm and it was enjoyable, but I was not wet and it eventually started to hurt mainly from dry skin rubbing against dry skin. Does this mean that I am not attracted to him? Is there a problem? Is there a way to fix this?

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(reply to Anonymous)

I been trying to but he away have something different to say to me and I told him that if he was scared of me and he said no so don't worry I will get it I make want more so I will make wait now

May 18, 2014 - 4:02pm
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Anonymous

I've been sexually involved with this new guy who I am overly sexually attracted too. Foreplay is great everything great. But once we take it to sex I dry up fast and it begins to hurt. This have never happened and I don't want it to happen because I want things to be great between us in all aspects. Help!

January 6, 2014 - 10:54pm
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Anonymous

what does it mean to make a girl weak in her legs....how can u do this ?

November 26, 2013 - 5:20pm
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Hi Anonymous,

The expression is "weak at the knees". It means the girl feels as if she will faint or fall down because she is overcome with a sudden and strong emotion about something or someone. Now, if you want to make a girl weak at the knees over you, be polite and charming. Compliment her. Be a gentleman and hold the for her. Hold her hand.

Regards,
Maryann

November 26, 2013 - 5:47pm
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Not doesnt work no matter what I do it does nothing for my girl

December 4, 2013 - 11:34am
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Anonymous

my wife comes home from work every night and her underwear are filled with vaginal discharge is that sounds of her being turned on by someone are having sex with someone

September 12, 2013 - 7:47pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

It could be many different issues. Could be normal, could be a health issue especially if it smells fishy, some hot man or female could have crossed her path, a small chance it could be you?!
If you think she's cheating chances are it could be leading to that!

June 22, 2014 - 2:51pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

NOPE. ...She could have very well had you on her mind all day...So much so that she probably had to make a trip or 2 to the restroom to pleasure herself....We women thrive on emotion and good time...She couldz've been reflecting on a pleasurable night you gave her or fantasizing on one you will give her...Either way you were the purpose of those wet undies....isn't it awesome to know you light that woman's fire when you're not even around!
Feel this way for my man all the time....Sometimes I call him to meet me at home and I'll be naked waiting for him to walk through the smiling super hard with his game face on....The rest is history
So, when you see her undies like that know she has had a employable yet sexually frustrating fantasizing about you and she wants you to ms keeps love to her like never before!

June 17, 2014 - 12:14pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Vaginal Discharge doesn't mean she is turned on, or being turned on by someone else. Some women naturally create a lot of vaginal discharge, not only when they are turned on, but all the time. Discharge is a health mechanism in the body which helps to clean out the vagina, not simple prepare it for sex. Because she has a lot of it does not mean she is cheating on you, or playing around with anyone else, it could just be her body. Every woman is different.

October 10, 2013 - 8:52pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

anonymous im so sorry you need to ask your wife if shes wet or getting turn up and who and why would yo let this happen

September 16, 2013 - 5:39pm
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