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ask: What does it mean when a girl gets wet from sex or being turned on? What happens if she isn't wet? It hurts to have sex and not be wet, is there something wrong?

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Everytime I am having sex I always seem to be very wet, and sometimes wet through my panties. However, I met this new guy, really great!! I like him a lot and we stepped into that next level of having sex with each other. I did get an orgasm and it was enjoyable, but I was not wet and it eventually started to hurt mainly from dry skin rubbing against dry skin. Does this mean that I am not attracted to him? Is there a problem? Is there a way to fix this?

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Anonymous

My comment is can't you still be bestfriend with someone and be friend with benefits yes or no need someone to tell what to do about this

July 31, 2014 - 12:01pm
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Anonymous

It doesn't have anything to do with whether you love him or not. I believe it just happens to be how your hormones are working at certain times of the month. I usually get very wet wet when my boyfriends start making love and touching me. I get wet from my juices and most of the time I will end up peeing my panties that guys that I am dating like it when I loose control.

July 31, 2014 - 11:30am
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Anonymous

What's does clean means?
he wants a clean sex ?

June 25, 2014 - 9:52pm
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Anonymous

I read a lot online and sometimes there like kissing parts or someone is having sex and I get a weird filling in my lower part what does that mean?

May 22, 2014 - 8:12pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

It means its time to have sex your turned on it's a okay.

July 25, 2014 - 7:34pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

It means you wnay to have sex

July 23, 2014 - 5:50pm
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Anonymous

My comment is I am married to a great man but I don't get wet with him at all but I have a friend for 18 year and I get wet from him why is that can't someone tells me why is that

May 11, 2014 - 11:38am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

You shall have sex with that friend then lol haha

May 18, 2014 - 3:40pm
hotgirl (reply to Anonymous)

I been trying to but he away have something different to say to me and I told him that if he was scared of me and he said no so don't worry I will get it I make want more so I will make wait now

May 18, 2014 - 4:02pm
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Anonymous

I've been sexually involved with this new guy who I am overly sexually attracted too. Foreplay is great everything great. But once we take it to sex I dry up fast and it begins to hurt. This have never happened and I don't want it to happen because I want things to be great between us in all aspects. Help!

January 6, 2014 - 10:54pm
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