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what would u think if ur boyfriend go out to much?u think that he has another girl out there?or wat give me ur opinion?

By March 6, 2010 - 12:29am
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well my bf being going out too much lately,n i dont like that im thinking that he has another girl or that he just doesnt like spending time with me anymore.etc.

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thank u for ur advise im know its true what u r saying.she is 3 month old yea we live together.

March 6, 2010 - 10:07pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi again CT,

Women and men have a completely different outlook on child birth. Women carry the child for 9 months and go through so many changes. Men are not so involved, so if he hasn't changed after the birth of your daughter, he may never change. Especially if he is young, as you mentioned.

I will tell you one thing I have learned, if you feel like something is going on, it probably is. The best advise I can offer you, try and be a great Mother to your daughter. If he comes and goes and 'acts a fool', at least she has you and thats the most important thing. You cannot control someone so don't waste your time thinking that you can. You will be exhausted.

How old is your daughter? Do you all live together?

March 6, 2010 - 11:54am

yea hes young but that doesnt mean that he have to go out all the time.and plus we have a daughter together so he should settle down already you know wat i mean?yea we go out sometimes and he said that he doesnt take me to all the places that he goes because im too jelous but thats not true is that girls this days are too fresh..we were in a party the other day and some stupid girl came and huge him like if they had something going on.i just look at her with a bad look and she came up to me explaining me that they r just friend..i was like what ever.

March 6, 2010 - 10:38am
HERWriter Guide

Hi ct-

We would have no idea what's going on but just ask him! If you don't talk to him, you'll make up all sorts of things in your head.

If he is non-communicative or secretive, then something might be up - or perhaps he just wants to go out-is he young?

Tell him you'd like to go out with him more and see what he thinks about that. Join in the fun and then also spend time alone with each other. I'm sure there is a happy balance somewhere.

Tell us what happens, ok?


March 6, 2010 - 5:31am
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