when i have intercourse i lose my bearth. it is more like a panic and i have to stop or die.

Hi Anon,

Could you possibly be having panic attacks during sex? Is this a new relationship? Do you have a fear of sex?

Here's a little reading on Panic Attacks: https://www.empowher.com/panic-disorder/content/panic-attacks

https://www.empowher.com/anxiety/content/making-panic-attacks-disappear

Having a panic attack during certain activities can certainly decrease the desire to perform that activity again. So, if you feel like this anxiety/panic you're feeling is interfering with your life, please see your doctor and keep us posted.

Good Luck,

Rosa