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Actually, I caught him my first time, and he lied about everything. he confessed, said sorry, but, i hear him all the time, espcially in the mornings. He moans, but he denies it. When he could be taking his horny self out on me. I love sex, and i crave it, so i dont see why he is wanting to jerk off, when he has me.
Hes absolutly Lazy! Usually after work, he comes home, and we eat dinner, then usually watch a movie. usually we rent them, but he always falls asleep, we use to sit together on the couch, but he lays down in the other one and just passes out.
If we do have sex, its graved in my mind that, i, have to be on top. If hes horny, and we mess around (which is rare) ill try getting him on top, but of course hes strong and gets me on top, then im stuck there, he dont want to do new sex moves, nothing. Just that one move the entire time. I ask him to switch it up, and he says, next time, but he says next time every time i ask. so then again, im stuck on top. Hes just too lazy to do anything, I dont have a clue waht too do...
Alot of people would say join him. but its kinda hard, when he locks himself in the bathroom, and denies it, so he pretty much kicks me to the side, as though im nothing. What should i Do???
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Unless you bring money home you don't get a say over what he should or shouldn't do after work. His job is to work at his job. Yours job is to be the backbone of the family. Don't like it? Shouldn't have chosen a lifestyle like that.
Obviously there are some serious problems going on if he texts his fantasies to some lady. How alarm bells aren't going off in your head, and why you aren't confronting him about what the hell is going on is beyond me.
October 25, 2010 - 3:59pmThis Comment
Wow.
Not everyone has a financially based split of duties and responsibilities in a relationship. Being the backbone of the family does not mean being a mute slave to a wage earner. That sounds like a very 1800s way of thinking to me. If a couple agrees one will work and one will work at home, they are both doing their part and have equal say in everything. Otherwise it isn't much of a partnership.
October 26, 2010 - 6:42amThis Comment
We kiss, and sometimes cuddle in bed, but the whole talking thing, when it comes too me asking him any form of question, he just looks at me, or glares, or when I ask some random question, he ignores me. And I always have to repeat myself.
September 29, 2010 - 12:59pmI've never mentioned therapy, but he wouldn't want too. Maybe, simply the reason he acts the way he does is cuz he's very stuborn, and wins with everything, and treats me like some kid.
Also, yeah, it may not be catching him, and the reason why i feel it is bad, is cuz he prefers doing it instead of sex. I've asked him plenty of times if he wants sex, or hinted at it, or I try and turn him on, but he just falls asleep. I mean, yes he works, but when he's home he puts no effort into our relationship, family, as in the kids! I do just about everything, while he sleeps, or plays on his phone. He expects me to get up. And he's never given our son a bath, and he's a little over 5 months, a d gave our daughter one bath. And she's 18 months. I clean the house for him, but I can't take care of 2 kids alone everyday. It's 50, 50.... And he wants a 3rd? Crazy. Not if I'm gonna be doing everything. I know I sound crazy, sorry, just all this builds up and I don't talk to anyone.
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