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Why doesnt my boyfriend want to have sex with me?

By December 12, 2009 - 2:39am
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We have been dating for just over a year and in that time he has been more than passionate. He is always wanting to cuddle and touch me, in the begining we used to have sex daily but as of now it has been more than a month. I have asked him if anything has been going on and he says no, that everything is fine. He has also recently stopped coming to bed when I do, instead he stays up until 2 am and frequently falls asleep on the couch. This is causing a major strain in our relationship and I don't know what to do. Please help!

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I agree with Brock - there is probably an issue going on that he doesn't want to talk to you about - at least yet. But he is going to have to, if you both want to get past this and move forward - together.

Here is another thread for you - with dozens of women going through the same thing. I think you'll be able to benefit from reading about their stories and experiences and know that you are certainly not alone. Will you let us know what you think?

December 12, 2009 - 7:03am

Maybe he's not on the mood these days. Try to make it out for him and make him feel the usual days like what you want. You can try to investigate maybe there's a problem that he only wishes to hide.

December 12, 2009 - 3:16am
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