Why Doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me anymore?
We've been dating for over a yer now but in the last few months our sex has drastically decreased at first started to go down from at least 1-2 times a day for at least 5 months and then it went down to 1-2 times a week and then to 1-2 times a month and now it's been a month and a half since we've had sex. I've read a few articles about this allready, but none seem to fit my problem exactly. I was worried for a while that it might be me that was the problem and but he told me it wasn't and i know he wouldn't lie to me. I've asked him about it but he says theres nothing wrong. I just don't know what to do anymore. He's only a year older than me and he's suppose to be in hes prime. Is there anything I can do? I Haven't pressured him or anything because I dont want him to do it just to shut me up. I want him to want to. and I'm just not satistied anymore and im not asking for everyday, at this point once or twice a week would be nice. A far as I know there's nothing he's stressed about at work or school, could it be a cobination of the 2? or something else going on that I don't know about? and please keep in mind that im am searching for help and advice and I don't want to hear find a new boyfriend. I love him and im not leaving him, even if it means were not going to have sex anymore. But it's frustration for the time being as I find it a tad odd that I want it more than he does. and I don't really want to talk to any of my friends abotu it because I live in a small town and this is personal and I don't need everyone talking about it. and the last thing I want him to feel is embarassed. I havn't told anyone of my friends but I'm in need of some advice. Any Ideas?
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we have been together for six months and the way he was and is now is very different, i miss my friend,lover confidant now he tells me Im clingy.I love this man but he clearly doesnt have my time. We didnt even have sex in the last month.
The hormone testosterone has everything to do with EVERYONE'S sex drive, genius.
HE 43. I DO NOT WANT TO KNOW IF HE FEELS THE SAME WAY.
He takes more medication. He pays someone to cut his lawn. He works and shares his money with me. And,He spends lots of time with me. He will soon be 88 years old. I am ten years younger. We have a relationship that is next to marriage. However, he,nor I am interested in marriage to each other. However, I might consider it, if he asks me. Please respond.
HE DOES NOT FEEL THE SAME WAY I DO. HE IS NOT IN LOVE WITH ME BUT, THAT DID NOT SEEMTO MATER A YEAR AGO WHEN ALL WAS GOOD AND HE TOLD ME HE LOVED ME. I CANNOT EVEN TURN HIM ON. WOULD A SUBSTANCE ABUSE PROBLEM HINDER HIS DRIVE. IT DID NOT LAST YEAR. I AM FUSTRATED AND HAVE NOT SLEPT GOOD IN MONTHS.