I have been with my boyfriend for over 7 months. I have met him on the Internet. We used to have sex 4 to 5 times a month - not as much as I would like to. The sex was nice but he never really tried to satisfy me and he himself never came. When I was giving him an oral sex, before he would be coming he pulled me away and started to have normal sex. I am confused, I love him so much but I know there are so many things that are wrong and I am not sure if I can fix them. Sometimes I feel he cares of me, he takes me out to romantic dinners, trips, I stay a lot at his place (he lives with his father and brother) does nice things for me. On the other hand I know he is sleeping with other women that he meets on the internet. I think for him this is an addiction. I also found out he is registered on some zoophilia site, which gives me creeps. I know there is a some problem with his sexual side, I just can not identify it. He has several fake profiles on the Internet in order to meet girls, he spends all day at work and than also in the evening just writing messages to these girls. He sends them texts from his phone too.Last time I tried to initiate sex with him he told me that he prefers that we go play basketball....I feel hurt, frustrated and lost. We are both 30 yr. old, I am attractive, guys like me but I am stuck with him, I cant just help myself, I dont know how to overcome him, to stop loving him or what to do? Any suggestions? :o(
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