My fiancé and I have been engaged for a year and been together for two, and getting married in about three years. We just clicked and mesh together so well.When we started dating we were having sex at least once a day, sometime up to five times a day. We couldn't keep our hands off each other and we just fell madly in love not even a week after we meet. And after about a year it started to dwindle; we just got comfortable, which is fine with me. However, it has just gotten really bad over the past four to five months. We might have sex once every 2 weeks on a good month. And despite the sex, he doesn't even really want to kiss me or even touch me. It is so bad that I get "after sex happy" from him initiating holding hands in the car; absolutely no exaggeration. Today I tried to kiss him and I got nothing, but a lightly pursed, peck on the lips, that I initiated. He then proceeded to tell me I was annoying him. I just don't know whats wrong I know for a fact he is not cheating on me because we are together all the time - unless he is sneaking away at 5:00 AM or having "texting/sexting" relationships. (I am completely hysterical and drenched in tears, to give you an idea of how serious I think this is.) I was asking him questions about it like: why don't you want to have sex with me? Is there something wrong? Now the questions are getting as desperate, like: Is it me? Do you not find me attractive anymore? Is my body not sexy anymore? Do you not love me anymore? I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!
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