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why doesnt my husband want sex with me

By July 10, 2009 - 8:45am
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i left a marrige of 20 years to be with my new partner. now i find that he would rather wa*k than make love to me. im highly sexed and want to. i try not to but i get mad. he comes to me once a month and that really quick no kissing or forplay. i dont want to leave him but i think im gonna have to. please help

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Hi Dawnie, We see this all the time here on the EmpowHer site. One partner is more sexual than the other. Have you tried sitting down and telling him how you feel? It seems like sex is one of the hardest topics for couples to discuss. You can't just keep walking out of relationships. That's not healthy either. You need to address your concerns or come up with a compromise that works for both you and your husband.

I'm sure our moderators will have some links to some helpful information for you. You should take a look at Dr. Marty Klein's videos on our site. He has great insight and I'm sure there's information which will help you to communicate your feelings with your husband. You can also ask Dr. Klein a question and we will get you the answer directly from him.

Thanks for coming to EmpowHer. I'm sure someone on the EmpowHer team will be responding shortly.

Best in health,

July 10, 2009 - 9:06am
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