My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now. We used to have sex about every other day. Now, it has been almost 3 months since we have done anything. I sleep either in just panties or in nothing at all every night just so he will get the hint that I am ready. If I try to come onto him, he makes excuses not to do anything. I found out about a month ago that he is staying awake longer than I do just so he can get online and masturbate to porn. He does this EVERY night instead of coming to bed with me and having the real thing. He is 22 and I am 23 so I would think that he would be all about sex. I have asked him why he masturbates all the time instead of having sex and he says that it has nothing to do with me and that masturbation is just easier and quicker. I have tried everything that I can think of to get him to have sex with me. What am I missing? I have been told that maybe I need to join him or bring porn into the sex, but he won't watch it when I am around him and if he watches it during sex, then he is just thinking of whoever is in the video. I have brought up all sorts of ideas to him and he still wants nothing to do with it. Is he addicted to porn? This is really frustrating and it is ruining our relationship. Whenever I try to talk to him abou it, he just gets mad at me. Someone please help! I really want things to be back to the way they were. I have my needs too and i REALLY do not want to go elsewhere to fulfill them.
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