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Why isnt he interest in sex

By Anonymous April 15, 2011 - 7:49am
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Iv been with my fiancé for 2 year during the last couple months he just not into sex.I'm 33 and his 23 my sex apetide is very high but he can go week with out sex.iv even started loosen weight just to make sure that it wasn't that he wasnt attractive to me anymore.I ask him time and time if is there anything I can do better but he says no.but we only have sex if I start it if not it go weeks before we do anythin and when we do . There not play and it last 5mintues I don't even have time to have a orgasm so I end up pleasing my self.I luv him but I don't kno how LNG I can last like thi.

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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question and for finding EmpowHER. So sorry you are going through this. Just as every relationship is unique, so are the reasons or causes behind your partner's choices in his behavior towards you. We have compiled the “best responses” received from both men and women in regards to your specific question, and hope you read through them thoughtfully. Women have been going through the same struggles, and have shared their insight and lessons learned. Men have also shared why they did not want to have sex in their strained relationships. Please let us know what “words of wisdom” or “tips” resonated with you from the following articles.
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