Hi! I am 26, have two kids, been married 8 years, and have absolutely no libido. This is causing some serious problems in my marriage and I want to fix it ASAP! I have no desire to be intimate, or sometimes even snuggled or touched. I never think about sex, and nothing, absolutely nothing gets me even slightly turned on. Pre-kids, we had a fantastic sex life. I never climaxed, but it felt good and was really enjoyable. Over the course of a few years, my libido wavered, and slowly depleted, and now it's like I lost it and can't find it! When we do have intercourse, it's extremely painful, no matter how much lubricant I use. My vagina is incredibly tight and can't seen to "loosen up". It just flat out hurts, to the point of crying. I love my husband over the moon, and can't stand the fighting and horrible place we're in right now. Please please help!
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