So my boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. We recently started having sex a couple months ago and it was fine. I was the one who wanted to have sex and we have waited a long time to have it because he never wanted to do it before which I understand. My boyfriend and I have always been very intimate and he has always loved to 'mess around.' But in the past month my boyfriend really hasn't wanted to do anything, not even mess around. This is very strange for him and it concerns me. I asked him today why he never wants to be intimate anymore and he told me that he doesn't want to get 'tired of it.' What in the world does that mean!? It was kind of a stab in the heart to think that he doesn't want to do anything with me because he will get tired of it. You would think that after three years he would have gotten tired sooner. Then he said that he wants to chase me. He wants me to play hard to get instead of always asking for intimacy (which I have been a lot the past month). He still says he loves me and we are going to the beach together in a few weeks. I do no think he will break up with me but I just wanted some other peoples opinions on the matter.
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