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Why won't my fiancé won't have sex with me anymore

By August 6, 2012 - 9:18am
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I have been with my fiance for a year now..yes we did kind of rush thing and moved in together months after knowing eachother and are now engaged to get married in a few months. The sex was great and has been up to 3 month ago he doesn't look for me or make a move it started off with almost every day even a couple times a day to a few times a week and now it seems we only have sex like 3 times a month. In his defense he had a back injury around that time and has been real stressed about not being in the right career .. He is lovable and hugs,snuggles,kisses me tell me he loves me every day he also grabs me everywhere but mo sign of wanting to make love.So I was fine. Last week I found out he was looking at porn which I the first time I ever known him to do that, I was very upset because he has a willing partner and he's Looking at other sources to get off..I felt offended.. He also looked at other females pictures nothing else he's never cheated or gave me a reason to think so.hes always home at work and never leaves out with friends his idea since the beginning..he assumes that if you have someone you love there's no reason to go out without her. Which is great.. Is it me? I thought I was gaining weight so I started to work out,still nothing..I'm very attractive,responsible and not too bitchy.. I need to know if I'm getting out of hand on my thoughts or am I right to be worried. I've mentioned it a few times like 2 months ago but have left it alone and let it eat away at me daily. Although I'm an all around female I feel unattactive and neglected..sexually that is..do I talk some more..stay or run?

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Hi Jezel909,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  If you feel this way about your partner.  You should find the right moment, maybe over dinner and alone and let him know how you feel about him.  Also, you might want to seek counseling together.



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