hi...ive been in a serious relationship going on two years now, im only 20 but i think like most older n wiser women, My fiance is 19 and he plays football out of state. resently he has found out hes very ill with the shingles, it breaks my heart him having to go thru so much pain n angony and me not able to be there for him...he gets very aggitated and very angry at times for no reason. he recently went to the doctor with one of his coaches n the doctor told him he has to be out for the season, hes very upset, i dont know what todo for him onli because he gets angry even if i try to talk to him about it. im tring to stay positive for him but lately hes been so negative, his parents are also sick especially his mom. how does a young girl like me handle all of this? he pushes me away n barely says much anymore. i feel hopeless at times because im not there to help him during the day or make things easier for him...i tried telling him if he focuses on getting healthier the coaches n the doctor will put him back in the game and that its not the end of the world for him! i just wish someone could guide me to help him, or atleast how to make him understand or how i can stay positive for him during this time where he feels hopeless, im tring to stay positive and when he pushes me away with mean words i tell my self its the shingles that have him aggitated. but sometimes it seems like too much...i dnt ever see myself without him but sometimes i feel like we cant be together and i feel bad just for thinking it because i know hes sick....what can i do?
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