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When my boyfriend and started having sex everything was great we were able to climax together. Now were not able to climax together anymore. What is problem?
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I was able to locate the other EmpowHer readers who posted similar questions...let me know if these help, as the answers and information are very informative.
You can search for Dr. Marty Klein or Dr. Deborah Rouse-Raines for their responses regarding human sexuality, reproductive health and relationships. Here are the most relevant ASKS and SHARES related to your question:
https://www.empowher.com/share/reproductive-system/sexuality/ignored-sex...
https://www.empowher.com/community/blog/jordanand/frustrated
https://www.empowher.com/ask/why-cant-i-reach-orgasm
August 3, 2008 - 6:31pmThis Comment
How long have you two been sexually active together, and how long have you not been able to "climax together"? Are you able to climax separately (on your own)?
The topic of human sexuality, including both sexual arousal and sexual climax, has so many facets, it is difficult to provide information...without more information from you!
Different factors in your life, or in your partner's including any physical, mental, financial, emotional, social and relational changes can effect the sexual aspects of your relationship. What changes, related to any/all of the factors mentioned above, may be the culprit(s)?
For more information, also check out Dr. Marty Klein's posts for some great information on sexuality, reproductive systems and relationships:
https://www.empowher.com/share/reproductive-system/sexuality/video-woman...
Dr. Marty Klein: "I think what we really need to underline for most people is that in women the predominant sexual organ is not the vagina; it is the clitoris. The vagina kind of comes along for the ride. There are lots of reasons to have penis-vagina intercourse. Orgasm for women is typically not one of them. So, when a woman comes to me as a clinician saying You got to help me doc, I do not climax.’ My very first question is, “So, what are you doing that you think ought to result in a climax?” and if she says, “intercourse” I will say well let us slow down here."
- Alison B
August 3, 2008 - 1:03pmThis Comment