My husband and I have been married for over two years. My youngest daughter is 10 months old. Since her arrival, my husband says I am to "wet" or can't "feel" anything while making love. It has put a damer on our love life yet I am a sexually active women. What can I do for this "issue'? I'm been doing my keegals.
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If you could give a little more information regarding your problem, it would be great.
Is it you or your husband who cannot feel anything during sex? And can you explain a little more about what he means by you are too 'wet'? We'd love to help further if you can give us a little more info.
Thanks!
July 9, 2008 - 2:01pmThis Comment
Sorry about that. It is my husband that says I am too wet and he can't feel anything needed in order to have an orgasim. I have no problem having one, but he doesn't every often. I guess once I get aroused, I tend to get very wet. Too wet for his penis to feel much after a few minutes. I don't want him to not be satisfied. I hope I extremed as much as you asked. Sorry
July 9, 2008 - 2:07pmMomof3. Don't apologize. We have submitted your question to one of the top sex doctors in the country and we always try to get an answer within a few days.
July 9, 2008 - 3:25pmI've had 3 children, so you can only imagine how weakened my muscles are! Something I found helps my husband feel the tightness he wants during sex is to straddle my two first fingers (like a "V") over his penis. He finds the extra bit of pressure against him, and the extra intimacy, very exciting. We've been together over 30 years, so something's working!
July 9, 2008 - 4:40pmAfter having my kids when I have sex with my husband I I'm extremely wet I can't feel anything and I can't in joy it like I use to.
November 1, 2011 - 5:10pm