I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months. It is both of our first serious relationships. I'm 22 and he's 19. I have had other casual relationships and everything was fine until he inquired about it. I was truthful with him and he has a huge problem with it. I was sexually abused by a family member when I was younger and sex was never a big thing to me into I fell in love with my boyfriend. I explained all this to him and since then we have only had sex twice (that was 4 months ago). I love him and I know he loves me but I don't know what to do. I don't want to end it but if he's holding back because of my past and never gets over it I'm not sure what I can do. Someone please help.
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