I recently found out my husband has been watching gay porn on the internet. He was at one point chatting with gay men talking about wanting to have sex with them. When I confronted him about it he said that it was just a phase that he was going though and that he is over it now. Before finding out about this it had been over a year since we had sex, sine our child was born. Now I see that he is downloading porn from the net again this time women. I try to keep our sex regular but if we miss having sex one day he will find time alone so that he could jack off. My question is am I the problem or is he a porn addict?
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Hi...This is my first time posting here. I too am concerned that my boyfriend is bi sexual. After reading this thread I think I now have the answer, however I do have another question about communicating online with other men. My boyfriend has a medical issue that he was born with (can't recall the name), that left him with ED and scarring and his penis is only about an inch or two...heres my question..".Is it possible that he was just getting what he can get?"...he told me he has only had two girlfriends in his life without much sex. He is very embarrased about his condition and keeps it a secret; even his family members are unaware (other than dad who brought him to his surgeries, don't think mom even knows anything??). I also caught him on sites seeking men but he denies being bi sexual. This keeps popping up in our relationship causing much unhappiness. I'm just trying to get to the truth??!! Is it possible he is NOT bi sexual given his situation? He says he loves me more than anything and does not want to lose me which makes me think he's not admitting it to keep me from leaving him? I try and try to get it out of him but he sticks to "I'm not interested in men"...he says he tried it for the language only?? He likes more raunchy talk and says the women don't provide it. Can anyone help me resolve this???
July 27, 2012 - 9:32amThis Comment
Hi, "Unhappy,"
I think what the others commented here is great -- I just want to let you know that I really feel for you and hope that your husband starts finally opening up and being honest with you. He owes you that much.
Please let us know what happens.
August 9, 2009 - 10:41pmThis Comment