Ok so my partner has said things aren't the same as they where and what's to split up, which we did a week ago, however he now says he does still love me yet his status on facebook is single and when he Txts there aren't any kisses where before there were loads, but we are just living in each other's pockets and bring too possessive, but there is still hope for us. But for me we hardly see each other most the time we are working and only see each other on a odd weekend and an hour or two on a night, he says we need space and time apart but will he find someone else out of sight out of mind type of thing maybe. I don't know what to think of all this is there hope or is he letting me down gently? Help me out please people
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Hi Anon,
Thank you for your question.
I think it's safe to say you recognize your relationship is changing. It sounds like it maybe changing in a way that you are not comfortable or satisfied with. Your partner has expressed what he wants, but you are part of the relationship too, so I ask, what do you want from a relationship? Are you willing to compromise what you want and just be available for someone else here and there? I know it can be difficult to transition from what is comfortable, but a lot of times change serves as a way to open our eyes and help us grow.
As for the question is there hope, the old saying is, there is always hope, but what exactly will it result in? Will you be happy or just settling? Only you can really answer whether there's hope and if it will get you the quality relationship you want. Just remember to be considerate of yourself in this process.
I hope this helps
December 24, 2015 - 2:36pmBe well,
~Gillette
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