I've been in a relationship a year and a half now and things were great at the start, he always wanted sex but I had the implant in so I wasn't so keen but things got better n I got the bar out n got pregnant, had a boy there on November but about 2 months before I had my son my partner stopped being intimate with me he said he didn't want to hurt the baby but things haven't got any better, when I say anything he says he doesn't know what's wrong so I obviously think its me, he's says it's nothing to do with me it's him ! I just don't know how to make things better if he doesn't talk to me at all! I need to know whether to keep working at this relationship or give up on him and move on? Help!!!
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Hello Anonymous,
Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for reaching out to our community for advice.
The decision to stay in this relationship is ultimately up to you. Do consider your son.
Aside from the lack of intimacy, how would you rate the relationship? Do you truly love your partner? Do you have shared interests? Do you feel this relationship has a future? Are you committed to your partner?
If both of you feel that the relationship is solid and are committed to resolving the issue, then I suggest you seek counseling. An impartial third party, whether it be a couple's therapist or minister, can help you identify the cause and work to a resolution.
Regards,
April 22, 2015 - 8:35amMaryann
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Thank u
April 22, 2015 - 2:41pmThis Comment