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Hi Melissa, You shouldn't be embarrassed about not having an orgasm without assistance. Many, many women have the same issue. For starters, you may want to check out the following links that might be able to lead you in the direction you want to go. They're a mixture of posts from other women who are in the same boat as you and videos that help you understand the issue a little more.

Woman Can’t Orgasm During Sex = Sexual Dysfunction?

What Is A Sensate Focus Exercise?

Sex Help For Women? Viagra May Boost Female Libido in Some Cases

http://empowher.com/ask/why-cant-i-reach-orgasm

http://empowher.com/community/blog/tasha09/climax

Please let me know if this was helpful to you.

Melissa,

Here's some additional EmpowHer content that should be helpful to you.

Click on the links.

I hope this helps.

-Todd

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VIDEO: Watch Sex Therapist and Marriage Counselor Dr. Marty Klein explain if not being to reach orgasm during sex could be a sexual dysfunction.
http://empowher.com/share/reproductive-system/sexuality/video-woman-can-...

VIDEO: Sex therapist and Marriage Counselor Dr. Marty Klein explains whether sex toys are a valid part of a woman's sex life.
http://empowher.com/content/watch-this-dr-klein-are-sex-toys-a-legitimat...

I know of an article that discusses myths about vibrators that may also be very helpful- http://www.holisticwisdom.com/vibrator-facts-myths.htm

Hi :)

This is not abnormal. Most women who masturbate frequently, or use toys often,have this issue. This issue created is psychological. When one is used to having control over ones own pleasure, giving up that control is very hard. Try taking foreplay slow, it'll help you give up that need for control and give it over to him. Also be sure to be vocal about what you want, as well as what you like.