im a 21 yr old woman ive been dating my boyfriend for over a year in a half we were in love and just a few months ago back in june he started changing and talkin to my sister and developed feelings for her and started losing his love for me cuz I never gave him that butterfly feeling inside and she did I been looking for someway to get that love feeling back ive been praying and praying for something to happen I tried keeping a positive attitude he is the love of my life ive never cheated ive made many mistakes and fought bout them I have done stuff for him and hes done stuff for me it seems like he don't care bout my feelings at all I want to understand him he is stubborn and has some anger issues ive done sweet things for him he likes it but tells me it wouldn't change his mind bout what he feels but I still pray everyday hoping I could find an answer to save my relationship cuz I still have faith even tho its difficult right now to get threw to him hes the only guy that has made me feel something inside that ive never had before we use to have fun together and do things and now hes a different person now and it kills me everyday knowing he don't love me the same but ive always prayed and try to be strong
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I have been doin nice things like breakfast in bed doin the laundry cleaning house he has said thank u things that he would get on me bout I been doin and that was one of the things we argued bout that I was lazy and jealousy was a big issue for me so im trying to be cool and lay back a lil bit I no I cant force someone to love me but I have the strenghth and motivate for myself to fight and atleast try to make things work I feel like im finding myself all over again before I met the love of my life im working a lot to change my life around
September 8, 2013 - 12:42pmThis Comment
Hi dougsgirl,
Relationships can be the greatest thing and the worst thing. The greatest when things are solid and great, however, the worst of things when they go sour. We all go through breakups and they are hard - I won't lie although the best thing about your relationship is that he is telling you the truth about his feelings for you and therefore, you must take the steps to move on. None of us can force someone to love us - this is impossible. I know this may hurt but you should take care of yourself first. Pray and seek some assistance for your heart ache (therapy or your priest). If this man loves you, he will come for you....if he doesn't - it wasn't meant to be and the right one will come...they always do.
:-)
Keep your head up.
Missie
September 8, 2013 - 5:47amThis Comment