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Say Cheese and Stay Married

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According to a recent study by the Touch and Emotion Laboratory (TEL) at DePauw University, people who smile the biggest in photographs when they are young are more likely to stay married later in life. The frowners were more likely to divorce.

The Greencastle, Indiana researchers sent emails to about 18,000 college graduates and used the emails that sent back a completed online questionnaire and a picture from their high school yearbook. Some of the questions asked about their marriage, such as if they were in a committed relationship and if they had ever divorced. The researchers eventually used 225 women and 124 men in their study. They had graduated between 1948 and 2005 with ages ranging from 21 to 81 years.

The first study looked at old college yearbook photos and rated smile intensity from 1-10. The scoring was based on the strength of the muscles that pull up on the mouth and that create wrinkles around the eyes. Based on the smile intensity score the researchers evaluated the biggest smiles and the most downturned frowns.

The researchers found a surprising correlation: the less people smiled, the more likely they were to later divorce. The researchers found that none of the people in the top 10 of smile strength had divorced while the ones with the smallest smiles had divorced almost 25 percent of the time.

They did a second study where they asked people over the age of 65 to show pictures from their childhood. The average age in the pictures was 10 years old. Again, the researchers found that only 11 percent of the biggest smilers had divorced while 31 percent of the frowners had ended at least one marriage.

A psychologist who led the study proposes several possible explanations:

• It could be that smiling represents a “positive disposition towards life.”

• Perhaps smiling people attract other happy people and two happier people are more likely to have a long-lasting marriage.

• Maybe people who smile more often attract more friends and a larger support network that makes it more likely they will keep a marriage healthier.

• Or maybe it’s just that people who smile for a picture when they are told to say “cheese” have more compliant personalities that might make marriage easier.

The why of the smiling effect remains elusive. One of the researchers acknowledges potentially "dozens" of possible explanations. He says his gut inclination is that people who smile on average in their photos have a positive disposition that serves them well in life and relationships.

Source:
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MC Ortega is the former publicist for the late Walter Payton and Coca-Cola. Ortega is a senior communications and messaging executive specializing in media relations, social media, program development and crisis communications. Also, Ortega is an avid traveler and international shopper. Ortega resides with her partner, Craig, dog, Fionne and extensive shoe collection. Ortega also enjoys jewelry design/production and flamenco dancing.

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