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It’s Never Too Late

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When was the last time you finished a conversation and slapped your head and said to yourself, “DOH! I meant to thank them for the gift!” or “I meant to apologize for ...” or “I meant to explain something that I said that may have offended them ...” or ... ??

Whenever I say something like that, my wife always comes back with this: “It’s never too late ... ”

You know, it’s true. If you didn’t say or do something that you really wanted to say or do, it’s probably not too late ... Say it or do it now!

Here are some examples of things you may have wanted to say ...

• “I’m sorry,” for something you did or said

• “I love you”

• “Thank you,” for something that they did or said

• A compliment of some sort

• An explanation for something you think may have been misunderstood

Of course, there are exceptions. If, for example, if the other person dies or is in some other way permanently unavailable, then it IS too late. Come to think of it, that alone is an excellent reason why you shouldn’t delay in repairing the error!

Think about it ... Suppose you sent a gift to a friend and she called you but didn’t thank you for it. You’d wonder if she even received it, wouldn’t you?

On the other end of the line, she hangs up the phone and then realizes that she forgot to thank you during the conversation. Did she blow it? Did she lose her chance?

Of course not! She can call you right back, she can send you an email, she can write a thank-you note on a piece of paper (remember those?) and send it in the mail (remember the mail??).

Would you be offended? No. Would you appreciate her appreciation of your gift? Of course! Would you resent her for not thanking you? Maybe, but not for long!

And so it is when it’s you that forgot to say something important. You can fix it, though, either right away or the next day or the next time you talk to them, depending on the situation.

If it’s something that is difficult to talk about such as, for example, an embarrassing mistake you made that you need to rectify, you can still bring it up the next time you have a chance ... a late apology is better than no apology at all.

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This article makes me happy! This is a phrase that my dad engrained in us growing up and it's something I still think about today. It can apply to something you want to say, but more importantly, something you want to DO! Thanks for the reminder! 



April 13, 2012 - 6:35am
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