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A Little Birdie Told Me

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It’s been a long and heartbreaking week with the tragic passing of a friend and ex-teammate. The hardest part is seeing how challenging this has been to his family, best friends, and supportive teammates. This week I wanted to share a story that once helped give me some comfort and guidance at a time when I needed it most.

I have always been extremely close to my grandparents, so I was devastated in 2001 when my grandfather suffered a sudden heart attack and died a few days later. The timing of that shattering event couldn’t have been worse for me. I was doing a ski industry tour at the time and had to present a speech about an hour after hearing the distressing news that my grandfather had passed away. I didn’t know how I was going to hold myself together.

Coincidentally, someone had recently told me that birds often show up to let you know everything is going to be okay after someone close to you passes on. As I listened to the MC introduce me, I recalled the comment and thought how absurd it was. Besides, I was in a convention center, so could at least count the bird out for the afternoon.

I made my way onto the stage and started my talk. I was fumbling over my words and couldn’t concentrate. Suddenly, out of nowhere, a bird swooped down and landed on the screen right behind me. I smiled as I shared the inside joke with myself, and continued on with the rest of my speech . . . flawlessly. I knew I was going to be okay.

Whether or not that bird had any significance, I was reminded that my grandfather’s spirit would live on within me forever, and that he had taught me everything I needed to know about staying strong in challenging times. I would be okay.

There are so many very positive things we can take from everyone we’ve known. My friend Jeret “Speedy” Peterson is certainly no exception to this rule. Though Speedy’s flame has been extinguished, his fire will live on in his family, friends, and teammates.

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Thanks for this beautiful story, I was only a fan but I feel extremely sad that he is no longer here with us.
Even though he might not be here any more, he is here in spirit.

Once again an AMAZING article for an AMAZING human being...he WAS and IS INSPIRATIONAL, I wish he was still here. I was really looking forward to seeing him compete in Russia, but I hope the team does a tribute to him in the 2014 Winter Olympics.

Never will there be another one like him, he wore his heart on his sleeve and was an 'all or nothing' guy, which I admire about him.

Also I think Nikki you are an inspiration as well to be able to get through that tough injury and you are just a champion.

August 3, 2011 - 3:13am
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