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By August 31, 2011 - 8:51am

I am 25 years old. I was supposed to get my periods on August 21st, since the month before it was delayed by a week plus (supposed to happen on July 13th but happened on July 20th) so I assumed that it will be on August 21st, however, its August 31st and no sign of it still...I have not had vaginal sex but was active and had anal on the third week of August about three times that week, but my boy friend and I washed up and cleaned the areas, used lubricants, and tried to be as careful as we could....and I tested myself this week on Monday, August 29th when I felt it should have come by now and it came negative. Please help me..I am not ready to become pregnant, marry, or anything else. I plan on becoming a graduate student next year and follow my dreams of becoming a professor...thats why I have technically not had the real sex yet as I had wanted to wait for my marriage and now I am nervous and terrified!

By December 21, 2011 - 2:33am

you can get pregnant by anal if the semen if the semen dribbles down an goes in the vigina please use condoms

December 21, 2011 - 2:33am
By HERWriter Guide September 8, 2011 - 6:58am

Great! Thanks for the update and that's it good news!


September 8, 2011 - 6:58am
By September 6, 2011 - 12:14pm

Yeap, it came just on the dot the day I wrote the post! :)

September 6, 2011 - 12:14pm
By HERWriter Guide September 4, 2011 - 4:43pm

Hi anonymous1486

Thanks for your post!

It really does not sound like you could be pregnant. Not having vaginal sex, having a negative pregnancy test and a history of irregular periods would suggest you are not pregnant.

Also, having anal sex only until marriage is not necessary in order to avoid pregnancy (and it doesn't make you a virgin in any kind of social or religious sense.) Using a very reliable method of birth control each and every time you have sex will ensure you do not become pregnant.

It has been a few days - do you have an update for us? Hopefully your period is here!


September 4, 2011 - 4:43pm

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