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The Un-Birthday Party

By HERWriter March 15, 2011 - 6:09pm

Please share what your baby's un-birthday was...if you had an anticipated due date when you lost your baby. If you experienced a stillbirth or lost a child after birth, please share that date and what you do to get through that date every year? Do you mark it with a birthday cake or a balloon or something? Perhaps you remember other associated dates with the loss...please share whatever dates have meaning for you.

By HERWriter March 17, 2011 - 1:23pm

So this is really fresh for you, brennai. Thank you for sharing and welcome to the group.

March 17, 2011 - 1:23pm
By March 17, 2011 - 12:06pm

My baby's "un-birthday" is June 23, 2011. He or she died at 9 weeks in November.
Thanks for sharing your story Darlene.

March 17, 2011 - 12:06pm
By HERWriter March 15, 2011 - 6:15pm

I share my experience here:


My baby's "un-birthday" was March 16. He or she died at 11 weeks 2 days.

March 15, 2011 - 6:15pm

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